Bert Hellinger

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“Life disappoints you so you stop living with illusions and see reality.

Life destroys everything superfluous until only the important remains.

Life doesn’t leave you in peace, so you stop blaming yourself and accept everything as “is”.

Life will take what you have, until you stop complaining and start being thankful.

Life sends conflicting people to heal you, so that you stop looking outside and start reflecting who you are inside.

Life allows you to fall again and again, until you decide to learn the lesson.

Life takes you off the path and presents you with crossroads, until you stop wanting to control everything and flow like a river.

Life puts your enemies on the road, until you stop “reacting”.

Life scares you and will scare you as many times as necessary, until you lose your fear and regain your faith.

Life distances you from the people you love, until you understand that we are not that body, but the soul that contains.

Life laughs at you many, many times, until you stop taking everything so seriously and you can laugh at yourself.

Life breaks you into as many parts as necessary, for light to penetrate you.

Life faces you rebels, until you stop trying to control.

Life repeats the same message, if necessary with shouting and tapas, until you finally hear it.

Life sends lightning and storms, to awaken.

Life humbles you and sometimes defeats you again and again until you decide to let your ego die.

Life denies you goods and greatness until you stop wanting goods and greatness and begin serving.

Life cuts your wings and prunes your roots, until you need no wings or roots, just disappear into the forms and your being flies.

Life denies you miracles, until you understand that everything is a miracle.

Life shortens your time, so you hurry to learn to live.

Life ridicules you until you become nothing, nobody, so that then it becomes everything.

Life doesn’t give you what you want, but what you need to evolve.

Life hurts and torments you until you let go of your whims and tantrums and appreciate breathing.

Life hides treasures from you until you learn to go out and look for them..

Life denies you God, until you see Him in everyone and everything..

Life wakes you up, prunes you, breaks you, lets you down.. but trust me, that’s for your best self to manifest.. until only love abides in you.”

-Bert Hellinger